“ Only dead fish goes with a flow.”

So another day, I heard this saying: “ Only dead fish goes with a flow.” 

And wow, what a reaction it struck in me. ⚡️

Many will tell you that going with a flow is a good thing but here is why it's not. 

Going with the flow means living life unconsciously on autopilot without interfering with a thing. 

It means I am not consciously creating what I want. ❌

I am not trying to change a thing, but I am silently hoping that something will change. ❌

It means I am accepting whatever comes my way... Perhaps I don't even pay attention. ❌

And here’s a scary thing... 

Living on autopilot sooner or later makes one feel lost or stuck because, like that dead fish, she risks ending up nowhere.

Certainly not in the place she chose. 🚀

While sometimes it's hard to see where to begin... Know this - we rarely create lives we want by accident. 

So if you desire something greater, something better, something else than what you’re currently living... 👇

Start small. 

Notice what needs change. Be honest about it. Often, it's a mindset thing and that can be indeed improved.🤩

There are plenty self- help tools available and I am here if you need to talk.♥️

No matter what you decide, know that when creating a conscious life, we intentionally create and design the life we want. 

We reflect and select. We decide on things. We achieve goals. We thrive. 

We are happy because we actively choose to create lives we love- energetically, spiritually, materialistically, aesthetically, and wholeheartedly. 

I wish you never settle until you live your dream and are conscious that every present moment is your opportunity to be a new beginning. 🎉

With love,

Kristina

Increase Achievement Of Your Dreams By 42% 💘

Creating dream boards and writing our goals down increase our chances of actually achieving them by 42%. 

I’ve created multiple dream boards throughout the years. They’ve changed so much as I no longer want to lose weight, travel every month, or get shiny bling to show off. Those days, thank God are behind me. 

I now want different things. 

The point is, we will indeed always want things. And writing them down or gluing pretty pictures representing your wildest goals means that you can visually see them. This may sound like a cliché but there’s huge power in it. 🚀

First of all, when we see something, it affects how we act. You’re more likely to start getting up and moving towards that direction. If you can see what you have to do, instead of just thinking about it - it all becomes more tangible.

✅ When you can see your goals daily, it creates a sense of urgency to move closer to achieving them.

✅ Written goals help you have a clear focus and stay on track. When your goals are clearly defined, it’s also easier to say no thanks to distractions.

✅ Moving your goals from your head to a written form reduces stress because you don’t have to hold all of these thoughts inside yourself anymore. You can then have control over your emotional reactions. Also, after accomplishing your goal, you feel more at peace with yourself.

🦋 And lastly, don’t forget to break your goals into smaller pieces so you save yourself a great piece of feeling overwhelmed. 

With that said, I shall start working on my next dream board. I’ll hang it up high so it shamelessly stares in my face daily. 

P.S. hot pictures help! I’ll buy some Italian magazines for this matter without the intention of ever reading them. 

Can’t wait! 

Don't Waste 2020 OR Any Other Year🍾

I get it. Legendary 2020 has been quite a game-changer for many of us mortals. At times it truly feels as we’ve been punished. But regardless of what losses we may have experienced this year- personal or social- life goes on.

🌗 𝑴𝒂𝒚𝒃𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒚 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒑𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒆𝒅 𝒓𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒃𝒖𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒎𝒐𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒎𝒑𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒔 𝒂𝒓𝒆𝒏’𝒕.

Love isn’t paused. Relationships aren’t finished. Babies are being born and many of life’s future geniuses are quietly working on their next big things from HOME.

💫And the truth is many of those attention worth things are being created, mastered, learned, born at home. Because someone decided to use their time productively instead of coming up with lame excuses “ how we’ve got to wait until this thing gets over. “ 😤

❌ 2020 will be over and so will every next year that comes after this which is why I don’t want to wait until this gets over. I want to do things regardless of what year this is, or which moon phase this is, or what life throws at me.

𝐁𝐞𝐜𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐮𝐬. 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐰 𝐚 𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠. 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐞’𝐯𝐞 𝐯𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭. 𝐁𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐪𝐮𝐞 𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬, 𝐜𝐫𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐬, 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝.

🧚Because we’re only here for a minute so let’s stop wasting our time, waiting how this will pass, judging others how lucky they are by doing the things they love. Because if you’re reading this post- you have a minute to spare.

👀No one is lucky. Everyone works on the things that matter despite the uncertainty we are facing today. Because it will always be uncertain- today or 50 years from now. Because each moment is unknown.

𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐰𝐞 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 few 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐥𝐞𝐟𝐭 𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫. 𝐈 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐝 😅𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐨𝐧𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐲 𝐰𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞.

Ciao for now, 

I’m getting back to my things and babies💋